January 4, 2026

By the time you read this bulletin, I will have retired from the Sister Isaac Center. I retired from my first career with IBM in August of 2005. A month later,  I attended a parish meeting to discuss how we, as a parish, could assist victims of Hurricane Katrina. After the meeting, I introduced myself to Sr Isaac; I knew of her and her work  from a mutual friend (all 3 of  us are quilters.) I mentioned to Sister that I had just retired and I was seeking volunteer opportunities. She invited me to come in the next day to have a look around. I did just that.  I was so impressed with the ministry,  I jumped right in as a volunteer that very day. First I helped sort clothes; a little while later, I helped fill food bags; it was a busy day and I was pulled to help interview and serve a guest. After the volunteers and guests all left, I stuck around and did some cleaning. By the end of the day, I knew I had found my new purpose. I was taken aback by the people we served that day – it gave me a close up view of the poverty that existed in our area – I honestly had no idea. My initial assignment was in housewares. I headed up the collection of housewares to send to New Orleans – we filled a moving van full of donations from our parishioners and sent it on its way!   I then headed up the furniture ministry, arranging pickups from donors and plans to distribute to guests in need; I had a few other volunteers helping me with the planning, and I had four of our men volunteer to be drivers. We ‘hired’ some of our guests to help with the heavy lifting. (The helpers were compensated with a check made out towards their rent or a utility bill.)  It was a great program that I eventually had to shut down as most of the drivers were getting too old to be carrying furniture!). I’ll always remember the day when one of our recipients ( a single dad who had custody of his boys due their mother’s drug problem) came to me and said his boys sent their thanks for the beds we delivered, which meant they didn’t have to sleep on the floor any more!

Day after day, many of our guests express their appreciation for the help they receive from us – whether it’s food, clothes, household goods, financial assistance or just taking time to listen to their woes with compassion and empathy.

 In late 2016, SIster Isaac decided it was time to retire when she turned 80; as her board had discussions on trying to find a suitable replacement, I stepped up and offered to take on the challenge myself. I had been acting as her assistant for quite a while and I was familiar with all aspects of the job. I had shared the office with her so I was privy to all her interactions with guests, volunteers and donors.My main motivation was my desire to be sure her ministry was kept alive – and that happened with the help of our pastors, volunteers and donors. And, now that I’ve turned 78, it’s time for me to slow down.Earlier last year,  I had asked Fr. T. to hire one of my volunteers, Theresa Weissburg, as an assistant director, with the thought she could be my replacement when the time came. . From the day she walked in to offer her services as a volunteer, she has been a shining star; I knew from the start she had the potential to follow in my footsteps. (I often refer to her as my mini-me; she has the same drive, passion and dedication to this place that I do.) So as I prepared to retire, I felt a great sense  of relief that I was leaving the ministry in good hands with Theresa, our board of directors, all our wonderful volunteers and donors, and with Fr Jairo as one of our greatest supporters – I told him I call him our ‘PR guy’ as he does a great job of promoting our work:  he often mentions us from the pulpit!). 

Thank you to everyone who has been part of my journey; I’m very grateful that I have been blessed to serve for 20 years. Don’t be surprised if you see me on campus once in a while; volunteering is in my blood and I hope to continue serving the parish in any way I can. 

Blessings,

Mary Ann 

P.S. Please give Theresa your support  to keep this unique ministry alive by keeping Sr. Isaac’s work going. 


January 10/11, 2026

In the midst of our holiday projects, we were honored to receive a grant from a very generous organization. The Residents of Old Wilmington (ROW) had given us a grant in the Fall to be used to purchase protein for our guests. Recently, they presented The Sister Isaac Center with additional funds to help purchase additional much-needed food for our guests.

This added support allows us to further strengthen our food program by ensuring our guests have access to ample, nutritious food close to home—helping to ease stress and improve their day-to-day well-being. ROW has worked diligently with us to support food security for residents in our community, and their generosity will make a meaningful difference in the lives of those we serve. We are truly grateful.

In December, we were  the recipients of hundreds of pairs of Bombas socks thanks to Steve Lambros at https://diamondcateringservices.com/ and Todd Deisler of https://brighterstarthealth.com/. Diamond Food Enterprises prides itself on its ties to the community;  through its connection to the local Bombas distributor, it’s helped donate thousands of pairs of socks to local nonprofits. Thanks to Steve, our guests’ feet will be warm this winter season! And many thanks to Todd for making the connection for us!

The awareness of and commitment to the needs of our community shown by these two organizations is one of the many reasons Wilmington is such a wonderful place to live and do business. We are deeply grateful for their continued attention to the challenges facing our neighbors and sincerely thank them for their ongoing support and partnership.

TIME MARCHES ON:

 As we enter 2026, we will celebrate our 40th year as an outreach program. As mentioned in last weekend’s column, I will be leading this incredible organization moving forward. Following in the footsteps of Sr. Isaac and Mary Ann Kotas, I recognize that I have very big shoes to fill—and I am deeply grateful for the foundation they have built.  

I humbly ask that you keep me, our volunteers, and our guests in your prayers. May we continue to see the face of God in one another and in those we are privileged to serve.

If you ever have any questions, suggestions, or would like a tour, please stop by our office or call for a chat. 


January 17/18, 2026

The Sister Isaac Center has been a successful and vital part of our community thanks to the generosity of our parishioners and the many local organizations that support our mission. No group has been more consistent in their support than Knights of Columbus Council 1074.

Ten months each year, the Knights organize a food drive at local grocery stores in Leland—typically Piggly Wiggly and Food Lion. One Saturday a month, for six hours at a time, Knights take turns standing outside the store, distributing flyers and collecting donated food as shoppers exit. On a typical Saturday, they collect more than 1,500 pounds of food, which is then loaded into their vehicles and delivered directly to the Sister Isaac Center.

Just imagine the effort involved in collecting, transporting, and unloading over 1,500 pounds of food—not to mention standing outdoors in hot, cold, and sometimes rainy weather. 

Over the course of 2025 alone, the Knights collected an astounding 16,666 pounds of food!

In addition to food donations, the Knights also accept monetary donations during each drive, allowing us to purchase much-needed food items. In 2025, they collected more than $6,246 in monetary donations. They have also awarded the Sister Isaac Center two additional monetary grants specifically designated for food purchases. 

We offer special thanks to Rich Boccard, the Knights’  food drive organizer and personnel scheduler extraordinaire!

We are deeply grateful to the Knights of Columbus Council 1074 for their extraordinary generosity and unwavering support of both the Sister Isaac Center and our local community. Please know that when you support parish organizations such as this one, your impact on the wider community is greater than you may ever realize.

On another note, this past week, one of our refrigerator/freezer units stopped working. While we were able to salvage the contents, we are now in need of a replacement. The current unit is a side by side 29.1 cubic foot unit. Any configuration would be usable; side by side or upper/lower.  If you know of anyone who may have a unit in good condition that they are willing to part with, or have another resolution to our predicament, please let us know.